12.08.2014

AND I CLOSE WITH A BANG

If the typhoon doesn't hit us....

I'll see you all next week:)

This has been a year and a half with the Sister Taylor turned filipino.

LOVE,
SISTER TAYLOR

12.01.2014

THINGS I LEARNED THIS WEEK

They sent the first ever missionaries (there's two of them) to open up a mission in Sri Lanka.  They are from the San Pablo mission here in the Philippines, and our branch met them as they were at the temple last week.  Cool thing to think about as missionary work just keeps expanding!

Remember how I always felt (and still feel sometimes) like showering was a waste of time?  One of the first things I learned way back long time ago was that you have to shower every day here.  BUT. I found out this week that I can now shower in a record time of 6 minutes!  One of the sisters timed me, because I'm know for the short showers:)  

My companion, Sister Bautista, is really good at charcoal paintings!  After a year of being together, there are still things I learn about her.  The conversation that led to finding that out?  Secret:)

And for the final one.  People keep asking me what the biggest thing I've learned on my mission.  And I've thought a lot about that one too for the last couple of weeks.  I kept thinking, how am I supposed to fit everything I've learned here into a couple of sentences.  How do I describe or type out the changes I've made?  I thought it might be hard work, or charity, humility, patience, or how to have fun, how to change, teaching skills....

For me, it all eventually came down to the Atonement and the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  There was an Apostle that says everything in this church is just a facet of the Atonement.  And I figured that out here.  Everything I've learned, done wrong, improved, and changed is because of Jesus Christ, His sacrifice, and the plan He gave to us here on earth.  A plan that includes faith, repentance, baptism, the holy ghost, and enduring to the end.  

I spent a year and a half teaching that to people, and in the process, I became another one of my own converts.  

Wala na akong ibang masasabi maliban jaan.

Funny Story: Our lesson last Sunday in gospel principles (our class for investigators and recent converts) class was talents.  I always cringe at those kinds of lessons, because I have weird talents.  But this is the great part about Filipinos.  Our teacher, Brian (who is hilarious), asked me what my hidden talent was, and for some reason I told everyone that I could touch my nose to my knees.....  I still can't figure out why I told them that, but nonetheless, they wouldn't let me leave class until I showed them.  Even worse, because I haven't been exercising for the past couple of weeks, I couldn't even do it.  Call it hidden talent fail hahahaa.  But, they all just laughed, and it's become another one of the Sister Taylor-isms that are almost too well known to Guagua branch.

I LOVE YOU ALL!
SISTER TAYLOR

11.24.2014

THE DAY GUAGUA FLOODED THE TEMPLE


we're on a boat

  The white, 11 passenger van pulled up in front of the 7-11 at the plaza around 3am.  None of the stores around had opened yet, people were still asleep, but the driver opened the door to find an 84 year old nanay already waiting on the bench nearby.  She had a flashlight in one hand, a sweater on her shoulders, and her temple recommend in the other hand.  She was ready and waiting.


One by one, everyone showed up and piled into each seat in the van.

Right after this picture their bed broke.
Jackie and Rachel woke up to a cell phone ringing, letting them know that they were the last ones the group was waiting for.  With no time to shower or cook rice for their kids to go to school, they pulled on skirts, grabbed their temple recommends from the shelf next to the bed, and ran all the way to the plaza.  

The van finally pulled out of the lot around 4:30am, completely full of still half-asleep Filipinos, but wide-eyed in anticipation for the day.  There was a orange-red sun that filled the entire sky, and was just starting to come up behind them, almost waving goodbye.  Kids were waking up for school, store owners were sweeping their sidewalks, and 11 recent coverts from Guagua started the trip to Quezon City, Manila.

They were off to storm the temple.

It was a 4 hour ride, with no air-conditioning on a day that managed to reach a cool 96 degrees outside.  Because they were the last one to arrive earlier that morning, Jackie and Rachel were stuck in the back, where Tatay Guanlao kept teasing them and telling jokes that made no sense.  The only other loud voice came from all the way in the front.  Sister Abella was naming names and passing back blue and pink temple cards to each person in the van.  The only other thing to really pass the time was think about what was waiting for them, and what they would be doing with those colored cards once they got to the temple.
a windstorm

It was everyone's first time making it to the temple, and when the van finally made it, everyone piled out with mouths open, admiring the size of the big white building in front of them.  They weren't sure what to do, but lots of nice old people soon came out to greet them and showed them inside.  

Each had brought with them a newly signed temple recommend, that they gladly, proudly showed to the man in front.  One by one they went in, names in hand.

Dressed in all white, each member was able to do baptisms for the dead.  Some baptized parents, grandparents, children, and cousins.  Guagua branch was able to complete over 100 colored cards in that day, each one representing a family member receiving the gospel.  

Nanay Espiranza (my favorite 84 year old nanay) went into the water to be baptized for her mother.  When they read the first name (which wasn't her mother) she protested, and proclaimed, even in English, "That's NOT my mother!"  The same with the second and third names, until the fourth where she refused to go on until she heard the name of her mother.  Her mother's name was finally read, and a big, big smile came to nanay's face as she went down in the water and came up crying.  
my favorite grandmas here

She then exclaimed "It's just one more step until I get to heaven!"  All the temple workers were a little surprised at the sudden loud voice from a very small lady:).  

Guagua branch was at the temple all day, but it came to an end as they all piled back into the big white van that would take them back.  Everyone was so sad to leave, all promising to find more names so that they could come back again someday.  

The van was silent the whole trip home, still full of 11 Filipinos, now asleep, that were tired from a long trip.  Sister Abella still sat in the front (our family history consultant) and sorted all the now complete pink and blue name cards that the temple workers had given back to her.  

my grandchild (the trainee of my trainee)
Jackie and Rachel walked home after the trip, tired but happy.  They turned the corner and found the sister missionaries coming from the opposite direction, who got big smiles and ran towards them, asking question after question about the trip.  They asked about every detail, every person that went, until they had asked every question they could think of.  

I'm so grateful to have been put in this branch, and to see the people I love finally make it to the temple.  It was so cool to see them go through each step before getting to this point.  Finding ancestors, visiting cemeteries, figuring out how to work a computer, and becoming worthy to receive a temple recommend.  

The temple is definitely where it's all at!!!!

LOVE,
SISTER TAYLOR

11.17.2014

LET'S GO BACK TO HALLOWEEN FOR A MINUTE

MLC
I always have great stories to tell you, and then the week (or sometimes month) goes by and I still haven't told you it.  But going back to Halloween, we totally had it Filipino style here.  Halloween here is actually on November 1st, and it's called All Saints Day.  As their version of trick-or-treating, the Filipinos spend the whole day in the cemetery sitting next to their dead ancestors and partying.  It's like a big family reunion in the cemetery, how fun does that sound!  People go home to their hometowns, and as you're maybe realizing, no one is home.  No. One.  For the missionary, All Saints Day becomes more like a No Work Day.  We walked, and walked, and walked, and walked, aaaaaand waaaaaalked (there's the reference to the primary song).  When it got dark, we finally got to go home, because everyone starts drinking, and had a cute American style halloween party.  Maybe you saw it in one of the pictures I sent.  I was a gypsy, Sister Bautista was a flamingo, and there was a pumpkin and 80's girl too.  We played stupid games, made videos that have absolutely no point (I've gotten really good at that), and ate no food because it was fast Sunday.  Ha.  
floods

And that was how we spent the week before transfers.  We also called it a transfer party, because everyone made bets I was transferring.  I even made bets that I was transferring!  Transfers came, transfers went.  I'm excited to still be here in Guagua, after I had been here for 6 months I figured an extra month and a half can't make that much of a difference.  I asked president if there was a reason he didn't transfer me.  All he said was "revelation."  But I figured that seemed like a pretty good answer too.  
ice bucket challenge

We went to visit a less-active yesterday who we hadn't been to in a couple months.  She opened the gate and was really surprised when she was us.  I thought she was going to tell us to come back another day, but the first things that came out of her mouth was "I thought you moved Sister Taylor!"  And I wanted to reply, "They said it was revelation....", but instead we just laughed and she fed us spaghetti.

our companionship shirts
But I've gotten unmeasurably close to the branch in the time that I've been here.  We had a service project at the branch president's house last week and pulled all the weeds out of their yard.  It was more like digging in the sand though.  We worked (and got really tan) for a couple hours.  And then ran through rice fields, had a water fight, carried Sister Bautista around in the wheelbarrow, and ate cow tongue that they cooked.  Yummmmmy.  You'll get to meet them when you come, I love their family.  But they won't feed you cow tongue:)

service project
When you come, it will probably still be just as hot as ever here in Guagua.  Some things just never change.  Even in eight months.  We didn't get any rain this season and I think last week we had straight 90's.  Are you ready for that?  Or a better question, am I ready for winter in America?  No.

I slowly am starting to think more about coming home.  Sister Malig in our branch here has a daughter coming home tomorrow from the San Pablo Philippines mission and I was talking to her about it yesterday.  She said she can't sleep anymore from counting down the hours, and just keeps thinking of all the things she'll cook when her daughter gets home.  Her daughter sent a backpack home last week to them and Sister Malig told me the minute she opened she started crying (on the crowded bus) because it smelled like her daughter.  I could relate, and thought it might be a little bit of what you guys are feeling.  

LOVE,
SISTER TAYLOR

11.10.2014

I GOT TRANSFERRED TO MANILAAAAAAAAAAAAA


we tried to make our hair curly
 I'm proud to say that I'm (very rushed) in writing my email from the very heart of Metro Manila!!!!!!!  I laughed too when I emailed you guys all last night from the mission home, and figured I would get a good reaction.

FHE before our investigators
(that were going to be baptized)
left to work in manila
And I'm totally joking, I'm still in Guagua.  Transfers came and went, and nothing came or went for Sister Taylor.  I will be finishing out my fifth and final transfer there before I take the first flight home to 'merica.  I've been there seven and a half months now.... But I have become pretty boss in speaking Kampampangan to most people here.  

But... I really am in Manila right now.  We got here around 5am this morning after taking 2 jeepney rides, 3 bus rides, and a van, all of which induced a good kick of car sickness.  Why am I here?  

BECAUSE SISTER TAYLOR IS GETTING CLOSER TO COMING HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

halloween
We got a call Saturday night around 11pm (we were asleep at the apartment) telling me to pack my bags, pick another sister and travel to the mission homeSunday afternoon.  All the missionaries going home this transfer (9 sisters, no elders) were going to take a wild one day trip to the international immigration offices in Manila to get fingerprints and have our passports released.  We got about 3 hours of sleep Saturday night, and haven't had sleep since.  Traveling to Manila was brutal (like, who wants to ride winding roads with crazy bus drivers in the wee hours of the morning?), but we got here and after around 4 hours of lines, interviews, and paperwork, I'm allowed to come home!

I know, what a big relief, right?

And now we may have gotten a little lost trying to find this computer shop in the middle of the biggest city in the Philippines, and might have a really hard time later finding the bus station again.  You'll see next week if we managed to find our way home again.  But in the meantime, I got to eat a real, bean and chicken burrito earlier for the first time in a year and a half:)

travel plans!!!!!
The only other time I've seen Manila was when we got picked up outside the airport to go to our mission the first time.  That was almost a year and a half ago and the place is still as dirty and crowded as ever.  I had really strange flashbacks to when we were all on the bus for the first time in the Philippines, freaking out because we had no idea where we are, where we were going, and nobody could figure out how to use the showers (in our defense, it's pretty much just a pipe sticking out of the wall).  But I love looking now to how far I've come, and realizing that I made it through all this:).

And all the 'lasts' are starting to pile up.  I am now in my last area (which is only the third), with my last companion (still with my lovely Sister Bautista), will go to my last MLC in a couple weeks, and started using my last planner last week in our weekly planning.  I have my departing missionary x-rays to give to the mission office!  It's just becoming more and more sure everyday. 

*secret- I can now count the weeks I have left on ONE HAND.  Wow.

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what my companion does
at night when she can't sleep
Funny Story: Sister Bautista and I left the apartment to go out to work in the afternoon, I asked her if she had the cell phone.  She said no and smiled, but I thought she was joking (our whole companionship is just a lot of strange and not really funny humor).  She asked me if I had the cell phone, of course I said no.  So I let it go, pretty positive that she really did have the cell phone (she always tells me she doesn't have the cell phone when she really does).  Later that night we went to call our investigator to tell her we were coming to visit and I asked to borrow the phone.  Sister Bautista said she didn't have it.  I was like "ya, that's a good joke, but I read you too well.  Just let me borrow the cell phone."  "No, I know you have the cell phone Sister Taylor.  You're awful at joking."  "I promise I don't have the cell phone..."  And we realized that neither of us really had the cell phone.  We had gotten so used to each other's really bad joking that neither of us had thought the other was serious.  But a day without the cell phone ultimately proved to be a peaceful workday with no one calling:).  

You'll find that my (kind of strange sometimes) sense of humor still hasn't changed too much.

LOVES,
SISTER TAYLOR

10.20.2014

I REALLY DO LOVE MY COMPANION

The sun is shining! and there's a flood!
I just was so so excited to update you on our family history trip yesterday!  It took us 6 hours, but we were able to get 15 recent converts to start and finish their family tree and almost 20 names printed out for them to take to the temple!  We're one step closer to making it to Manila (hopefully we make it before I go home...).  We started the second batch of recent converts yesterday in our class, so we'll be making the trip again in about a month!  


The rest of this week was just a disorganized mess of funny stories and bloopers.  And it's in my email as well this week as a disorganized mess as well.

After I showered one morning, I tipped the shower head up so that Sister Bautista couldn't reach it to tip it down to shower.  She was the next one to shower, and within about a minute I heard a series of fast, high pitched Tagalog and then my name yelled:).  She tried to get me back by doing the same thing (I still don't know how she reached the shower head) but to say the least, it didn't do much.

I was coerced into eating chicken brains fried in egg.  They wouldn't tell until after I was done chewing.

Sister Taylor & Sister Bautista Selfie
A sister missionary that's companions with my old trainee told me a story of how she got a stain on her shirt and couldn't get it out.  Sister Penaranda (my trainee) told her to just use a white-out pen over the stain and it would come right out.  She told the sister missionary that's what her trainer (me) used on her clothes.  But what Sister Penaranda thought was a white-out pen was my tide to go stick that I kept in my bag:).  But this poor sister missionary used white-out on her shirt, and when the stain still didn't come out, Sister Penaranda couldn't figure out why it wasn't working for her companion.  The conversation ended, and the shirt ruined.  All my trainee could say was "well, that's what my nanay always used, your shirt must just be different."

That's about all for the week.  It's a little short.  Just like my beloved companion:)

LOVE,
SISTER TAYLOR

10.13.2014

THE LAST TIME I WATCH CONFERENCE IN TAGALOG (AND IN THE PHILIPPINES)

Sister Taylor & Sister Bautista
Isn't that title such a great sentence?  That was the first time, just yesterday, that I thought of the fact that there are some things that I'm doing for 'the last.'  But, I'm not too sad, because it means there is even more that is waiting in the subject line 'to happen.'

I came out of conference Sunday afternoon with lots of answers, plans, and new goals.  A great part about conference that no matter how world-wide every conference is, Heavenly Father still uses it to touch and help the individual.  I figured out almost exactly what I'm doing when I come home, and what I want to be doing the next couple of years.  I learned about the Atonement, and gained a new perspective on pondering (you'll laugh at that one Mom and Dad).  I also spent the whole time looking for the old elementary music teacher in the tabernacle choir, but I couldn't find her!  Did she retire??!!

It was almost 20 hours of new revelation that we listened to (how many hours does it take to listen to the Book of Mormon?), that's like an entire new book of scripture!  I got ready for all that time at the church, sitting in a plastic chair, by picking out my most comfy skirt and buying all sorts of snacks.  There were cookies, dried mangoes (of course), a chocolate bar, frozen grapes, and Filipino-style dried potatoes.  Some of the time we squeezed into the only room of the church that has air-conditioning, and a lot of time was spent standing up over and over again to try to fix the tv connection.  I loved the time Elder Holland commanded the entire conference center by the way he spoke, and the times revelation came for me came with furious writing and thinking.
those are crickets- they taste a little crunchy,
and it left a couple legs in my teeth haha

My favorite talk was by Elder Jorg Klebingat (is that the right spelling?), I love the way he combined the importance of spiritual and physical well-being.  I got the chills when he talked about trials seen as a time to prove our self, given at a time because of what we are doing right

I loved too the focus of temples and the little bit that was said again about family history work.  It's been amazing to see in all the emails I get every week, how my family is getting involved in the work of salvation.  Reading all the different things you're doing (temple work, missionary callings, family blogs, indexing, and Anna's calling) makes me so much more sure how Heavenly Father is rushing his work now to the finish line. 

I read somewhere that the Spirit of Elijah is actually a manifestation of the Holy Ghost that is given to accomplish the eternal work.  We can all feel it, even non-members, and no matter where we all are around the world, it seems to have the same effect.  To move the effects of salvation to every one of God's children, living and dead.

So while you've been busy with Elijah in the United States corner, he's been just as busy over here in my corner!  Last month, I started a family history and temple prep class in Guagua branch!  We got to the classes the first Sunday (I teach family history, my companion in temple prep), and realized no one knew anything about family history, only 2 relief society had even made it to the temple in the last decade and we had no access to computers.  But I went to work.  We've been training family history consultants, gotten half the ward members so far through the newly established family history 6-week program, and we have a branch temple trip finally planned for December.  The whole branch has felt the Spirit of Elijah as we started to look towards the temple, and our branch president has been dealing out temple recommends like money:)  We have a trip for all our recent converts this week to visit the district center (1 hour away) to start their pedigree charts on familyseach.org and our district president is also meeting with our companionship this month to be able to implement this program we've started within the whole district next year.  This small manifestation of the spirit is impacting lives here for eternity.

Funny Story: This perfectly demonstrates the cultural differences in the Philippines and America, a little of what you'll be seeing when you guys come!  There was a nanay (old grandma) that told us a story when her daughter was married a couple years ago to a foreigner.  They had a reception in the states and the mom came with.  After a wedding here, there are roasted pigs, cauldrons of rice, and all sorts of meals.  And then they spend the day eating.  The nanay said that when she attended the wedding for her daughter in the states, she didn't eat before the reception so that she could eat a lot at the reception.  She got to the reception to only "a really sweet cake that tasted like sponge and colorful juice" in her own words.  And she spent a little while trying to convince me to just get married in the Philippines because weddings in the states are "full of weird decorations and flowers you can't eat."  

Would you guys ever come over if I wanted to get married in the Philippines?

LOVE,
SISTER TAYLOR

P.S. That question is a complete joke.